Better Together

Founded in 2020 by Kathy Caruso, a lifelong Utica resident and dedicated special needs mom, Better Together was born out of a passion for supporting individuals with autism and disabilities. Kathy, alongside her husband Dan, has been advocating for nearly 30 years, building programs in schools, churches, and now the community at large.



What began as a parent support and advocacy group has grown into a movement to address disparities, create opportunities, and bring families, caregivers, and agencies together for meaningful connection

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A group of people are sitting at a table drinking coffee.

Our Mission & Vision

At Better Together, our mission is to create an inclusive environment where individuals with and without disabilities can connect, share, and grow. We strive to:

  • Foster community inclusiveness by bridging the gap between individuals with and without disabilities.
  • Provide accessible services that promote meaningful interactions.
  • Encourage lasting relationships through social, recreational, and educational opportunities.

Together with the Utica Center for Development, we cultivate a sensory-friendly space where everyone can participate fully, thrive, and experience a true sense of belonging

What We've Done

Community Fun Nights – Partnering with organizations like the Oneida County Sheriff’s Department and Kelberman to build connections and increase access to essential services.

Listening & Learning Events – Hosting forums with elected officials and training first responders to better understand and serve individuals with autism and disabilities.

Family Advocacy & Support – Equipping parents, caregivers, and loved ones with resources, encouragement, and advocacy to navigate challenges

The Better Together Center

Located at 714 Washington Street in Utica, the Better Together Center is a community-inclusive recreation center designed especially for adults with disabilities.


Features include:

  • Sensory Room – A calming, accessible space for regulation and comfort.
  • Arcade Room – Engaging, social play in a welcoming environment.
  • Art Room – Creative expression through painting, drawing, and more.
  • Model Train Layout – A unique interactive experience for community enjoyment.

This center is more than just a venue — it is a safe, enjoyable, and inclusive space where individuals and families can meet, relax, and build lasting connections

Our Values

  • Inclusivity – Welcoming everyone, regardless of ability.
  • Compassion – Serving with empathy, respect, and understanding.
  • Integrity – Upholding excellence in all programs and services.
  • Connection – Building a stronger, more cohesive community through engagement


Join Us

Better Together thrives because of community support. Whether attending events, volunteering, or sponsoring initiatives like our “Evening for the Stars” Gala, your involvement helps create a more inclusive and supportive Utica.

👉 Learn more at ucdevelopment.org or contact Kathy Caruso at (315) 292-8548.